One thing that I see missing most in sexual empowerment is women’s sexual sovereignty. Most women were not introduced to the idea of their sexuality as something that they should relish in, cherish, or as something precious and their own. Our introduction to sex rarely, if ever, included the topic of the pure power in embodying this energy as our own, and this embodiment is the key to sexual freedom.

Dark feminine affirmations for the dark feminine woman within ~

I'm done holding my tongue. I'm done being nice, swallowed by the empathy of how everybody else feels. I'm done being divinely compassionate, patient, and forgiving. I’m done being tame.

I’m ready to have high standards. I’m ready to have sharp boundaries, I’m ready to own the grandness of my dreams and expectations. I’m ready to be angry and emotionally uncomposed. I’m ready to stop filtering everything, and I’m ready to set my fire absolutely free and see what happens.

A woman empowered in her dark feminine energy traits is unapologetic in the power of her sex, ferocity, and instincts. She has embodied the power of the taboo woman. But how do we track these traits, fan their flames, and bring them online without their shadows thrashing?

Our fire as women, our erotic nature, and sexuality are all bound, and the dark feminine archetypes are the keepers of this sacred trio.

Meet the Huntress, B!tch, Mad Woman, Wh*re, Seductress, and Witch.

Feminine energy is largely projected towards us as weak, but dark feminine energy is projected as sinful. Dark feminine energy is the fire and ferocity of our feminine energy. It’s holy rage, death, destruction, creation, passion, pleasure, and the I don’t give a f*ck, sensual, sexual feminine energy. A woman embodying her dark feminine energy is unapologetic in claiming herself.

Deconstructing the shadows of the sexualization of women that have tainted our relationship with our bodies, sensuality, pleasure, and the erotic is going to help us find safety in embodying our female form, our feminine energy, the entirety of our hearts, and the innocence of the woman inside.

Pleasure awakens the feminine. In our longing to heal and awaken our feminine energy, pleasure is a divine key. I talk a lot about shadow work and becoming deeply aware of what’s happening within — the cycles, habits, thoughts, and patterns that are keeping us stuck, but when we over-fixate on shadow work we can get stuck there. What we need to do, is fill the void with pleasure.

People often want to know which feminine archetype they are, but we are not one feminine archetype — the point is to embody all of them.

As we work with different feminine archetypes, we awaken different facets of our psyche, emotionality, and physiology, and we awaken untapped forms of power, wisdom, and medicine. This newfound embodied intelligence then naturally integrates into our consciousness, behavior, and heart, and it integrates into all facets of our life around us.